Ok, so the other night my boyfriend of a yr and I had been drinking to celebrate his birthday and after everyone left we jumped into bed. We had been going at it for a while and I accidentally said his roommates name out loud. I have no idea where it came from! I can't stand his roommate and I have never cheated on anyone in my life. I love my boyfriend so much and would never do anything to jepordize our relationship. When he heard me he immediately stopped and refused to talk to me. We haven't talked about it and, now, I don't know what to do. Any advise you can give me is appreciated.

----------------------Miss Emily's advice------------------

Tell him it was a type of Freudian slip. Because you were drinking, prior to the event, your  thought processes were scattered, and you said something that had come into your mind from a previous unrelated thought. It was probably triggered by a brief reminder that your boyfriend has this guy as a roommate, and it popped into your head -- perhaps because you are aware your guy shares his space, and the nature of the event (sexual intimacy) made you fear having your privacy invaded.