Dear Miss Emily:

I have been in a 5yr relationship and my boyfriend has a problem with flirting with females. It's not innocent flirting. He sends them txt msgs that suggest sex or whatever. But he doesn't act on them. It's like he is trying to see how far he can get with a female. He doesnt act on it bc when he isnt at work we are together all the time which is valuable time since he works 2 jobs. and we don't see each other that much but we talk thru out the whole day. Recently I saw our phone bill and there was a full page of txt msgs that were sent to the same number at all hours of the day. So I called the number. It's a female. She claims they are just friends. I asked him about it and he said to me "drop it." Now he has changed our password on the account. What does this sound like to you?

-----------Miss Emily's advice----------

It's sounds to me like he thinks you're a fool, and as long as you accept the lead role in his farce, you are a fool!  I can't imagine what else it would take for you to dump this creep -- ask you to start wearing a blindfold and ear plugs?