Dear Miss Emily:

O K, so I'm just going to get right down to this. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now. We are completely in love and I know that in my heart he is the one for me. We are completely trustworthy and honest with each other. We both met through an Internet site and we see each other about 2 times a month for about 1 1/2 - 2 weeks at a time(expensive). Well, the past weekend I went out with some friends and had a good time until I completely blacked out and didn't know what went on until the next morning. It turns out my friends weren't as good of friends as I thought. I woke up in some random guy's house who apparently had intercourse with me (protected), and since I was what I think drugged, do you consider that cheating? In all honestly, I don't think it is because I was drugged and I know even when I'm drunk and, or sober for that matter, I would have never EVER in my life done anything like that whatsoever! So once again my question is:  Is that considered cheating?


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Cheating?  No.  Legally it would be considered rape. You are one forgiving guy not to be outraged by this, but to each his own.  In the future, never leave your drinks unattended, and always watch your back!