Dear Miss Emily:

I went to the job of the man I've been sleeping with to ask why he would lie to me about other women he is sleeping with. When I got there and saw him, he proceeded to blast me out royally. He said things like how dare I come to his job – to stay away from and leave him alone, etc. I have no intention of contacting him, ever again, after he degraded me like this but something tells me that somewhere down the road he will try to contact me. What are your thoughts on this?

---------------------------Miss Emily’s advice------------------------

Dear Fed-up:

You’re not going to want to read this, but I don’t blame this guy for “blasting” you at his place of work.  This behavior is an absolute no-no and, if you don’t understand that, he not only has a problem, but you do, as well. If he’s been sleeping around, and you’ve found out about it, that’s all you need to know.  Forego the drama, and if he does try to contact you, tell him “That ship has sailed.” In the future, try to be a tad more discriminating with your choice of bed partners.